Think of sex as ... fear

"I'm 28 years old, married. We love you so, but I was afraid for months over sleeping.

Every thought of sex as I sank lower abdomen, shuddered and felt a pain. Doctor help me. "

Pham Nam Vietnamese replied:

Newly married couple is the time to enjoy the "sweetest secret" of happiness. However, many traumatic stress disorder who make the nightmares you have about sex. Your case may be due to spasm of the vagina (Vaginismus), a type of involuntary contractions of muscles located in the third outside the vagina when a foreign substance introduced. Spasms, making her unable to have sex or painful intercourse. Main causes include psychological factors, or the body responds after the first intercourse is too painful.

So you need genital examination and treatment of infections vulva, vagina, if any. In addition, you may have "inherited" a hymen is too thick. Are you in any "attack" strong, but could not gain entry, but you are just confused because of pain, just do not know how to help her husband. Sex takes place overnight, or even longer.

You need expert advice, how to relax in preparation for intercourse, reduce the anxiety fear of war. Some cases need angry vagina slowly with your finger.
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